I am a male married crossdresser who has an obsession with lingerie (bras, panties) and bikinis and am seeking a man who appreciates that. I am new to the gay world, but anxious to explore and one day participate in an intimate sexual relationhip with another man. I am open to all the possibilities, but given that I am married, have to be discrete and careful. My situation requires patience, but over time it will get better.