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It's for people who want to meet other people. A site user can give as much or as little information as they want.
People who give small amounts of information maybe won't get so many dating successes as those who give lots of information.
Either this site fits your needs, or it doesn't.
If you want to be here, then be here!
The only PERFECT site for you is the one you design..
Just make the best of what time you have here and stop worrying about all this petty stuff that you can't control, eh!